How to Use, Clean and Program Your Yoni Wand + Yoni Eggs

Frequently Asked Questions



Q:  What Currency Is Your Shop Displayed In?

A:  Our shop prices are displayed in CAD, but you can easily convert the currency using the drop down menu at the top of the page.  You are also welcome to visit my etsy shop at Krystle’s Crystals.

Q:  Where else can I find Goddess Wands?

A:  You are also welcome to shop these beautiful Goddess Wands on my etsy store, Krystle’s Crystals!  You will also find a greater selection of healing crystals, handmade crystal jewelry, palo santo wood and art there.  Click the link above or visit



Q: Do your orders come shipped discreetly?  

A:  Yes.  Our packages come in a discreet bubble mailer or box.  The return address shows “Krystle’s Crystals”.  If you would like it to be packaged extra discreetly, please indicate in the order notes and the return address can simply show “1916966 AB Ltd.”.

Q:  Why is shipping so expensive?

A:  Because these wands are made from natural crystal, they are expensive, fragile, and relatively heavy.  Every wand order is shipped with tracking, insurance and signature confirmation, and every order is well packaged to protect the contents as they make their way to you.  We don’t believe in marking down the shipping and adding the cost to the price of your items – it feels disingenuous and leads to a skewed perception of the actual cost of shipping.

Q: How long will it take my order to arrive?

A:  This will vary depending on the items you are ordering.  Each individual item listing will specify whether it is in stock, or if there is a wait time as the piece is handcrafted to order for you.  Always read the product listing for clarification, and when in doubt please don’t hesitate to get in touch.

Many of our wands are handcrafted to order when your purchase is made, and can require 6-8 weeks before they are ready to ship.  This will be specified in the product listing.  



Q:  What is your return policy?

A:  As this is an intimate item, returns will not be accepted. Every wand and eggs are shipped tracked and insured, if you have any issues at all with the piece you receive, please contact me first to discuss a solution.

In the extremely rare case that your wand should arrive with shipping damage, please contact us immediately with photos of the damage so a Shipping Insurance claim can be filed on your behalf and a solution can be arranged to get you a replacement piece.

Q:  I’ve broken my wand, can I get a refund?

A:  These wands are made of natural quartz crystal and it’s important that they are treated with care.  Dropping your Goddess Wand or cooling a hot wand too quickly (or vice versa)  could certainly lead to fractures or breakage.  Use common sense and treat your Goddess Wand with respect.   Although every care is taken to ensure that your wand arrives to you in perfect condition, I cannot be responsible for damage or breakage that may occur after your wand has been received.  Please be careful with your piece, they are fragile and will break if dropped.



Q:  How do I clean it?

A:  Gently wash the yoni wand with warm water and chemical free soap (or vinegar) when your Goddess Wand first arrives, to make sure it is physically cleansed and ready to use.

The easiest method is to use our Goddess Wands Cleansing Mist.  It is a quick, easy way to cleanse your wands and eggs physically and energetically.

It is strongly recommended that you also energetically cleanse the wand using the method of your choice. This clears any energies left from packaging and shipping and allows you to connect with your crystal yoni wand and set your intentions for it’s use.  There are many different ways to cleanse crystals, I recommend a salt water bath, sound or energy clearing, smudging, or bathing your crystal wand in the light of the full moon.

Always wash with a mild, ph balanced soap and plenty of clean, warm water after each use of your Goddess Wand, and keep it in a sacred space in your room that is appropriate for such a beautiful and powerful healing tool.

As an alternate cleaning method you can also rinse your wand with warm running water, then rub with one drop of lavender essential oil.  Lavender essential oil is a natural antiseptic that is also safe and gentle when used correctly, and which will also energetically cleanse your wand.  Rinse the wand with warm water again and rub with a clean, soft cloth to dry.  It is very important that you cleanse your wand both physically and energetically using this method after every use.

Q:  What happens if I don’t energetically cleanse my wand?

A:  If you neglect to cleanse your wand energetically, you must remember that crystals are energetic tools and may hold onto the unwanted energies that they are helping you to clear.  An uncleansed wand that is holding a lot of unwanted negativity could cause you to feel affected by those energies when you work with it, or in extreme cases, the crystal could be more prone to break accidentally as it seeks to release the negative energy.  Luckily, cleansing is quick and easy and can be accomplished using the method above, or by soaking your wand in a bowl of salt water overnight.  You can also smoke cleanse your crystal using sage or palo santo wood, or sound clear with a singing bowl, or using energy like Reiki to cleanse it.

The easiest method is to use our Goddess Wands Cleansing Mist.  It is a quick, easy way to cleanse your wands and eggs physically and energetically.

Q:  How do I set my intention?

A:  Setting your intention for working with your new crystal Goddess Wand is a meaningful and intimate ritual.

After physically cleaning and energetically cleansing your crystal yoni wand, prepare a space where you can have time to relax, uninterrupted, free of any outside distractions.

This wand is a gift to your self, from your self.  You may wish to honor this offering and embrace the sensual energy of this ritual by lighting some candles and incense, soaking in a bath with some essential oils, and massaging your skin with love and coconut oil when you emerge from your bathing.  Play soft and relaxing music that makes you feel like making love.

Once you are also physically and energetically cleansed and in the right headspace, take your Goddess Wand and sit comfortably in your warm and private space that you prepared.

Meditate by holding your crystal and closing your eyes, breathing slowly and deeply and intending to connect to the Crystal itself.

You may choose to use an affirmation such as “I love myself, deeply and with my whole heart.” or  “I love my body.  I embrace my sensuality.”  You can mentally recite the affirmation of your choice slowly, while breathing deeply and visualizing your Goddess Wand being filled with the essence of your declaration.

You may also wish to envision yourself, consciously healing and connecting to your sacred sexuality and infuse the essence and power of that visualization into your crystal as well.

Some may wish to say a prayer or short statement to further anchor their intention that their new Goddess Wand be filled with loving energy to help them heal and embrace their sexuality.

There are many different ways and the best method is the one that works for you!

Q:  How Do I Use It?

A:  Goddess Wands are used much like any other yoni wand or insertable toy.  They can be used to massage the erogenous zones, and while we focus mainly on our female customers, they make wonderful sacred sex tools for people of all genders.

Those who choose a quartz crystal pleasure wand are interested in healing and embracing their sexuality and spirituality, and Goddess Wands provide a tangible and beautiful way to anchor this intention into our everyday lives.  It can be very healing to mentally recite your chosen affirmation while breathing deeply and massaging your most sacred and intimate places.

Experiment with temperatures to bring a new element to your sacred self pleasure.  Warm or cool the wand (in a bowl of hot or ice water) before playing, if you are feeling adventurous.

These wands are made of natural quartz crystal and it’s important that they are treated with care.  Dropping your Goddess Wand or cooling a hot wand too quickly could certainly lead to fractures or breakage.  Use common sense and treat your yoni wand with respect and care.

As with all insertable sex toys, use internally at your own discretion.

Q:  Can using a rose quartz wand amplify any feelings being held in the vagina?

A:  Quartz crystals will magnify, transmute, store, and transmit energy, this is why they are such beloved tools with energy workers.

The reason I choose rose quartz primarily is because it innately holds the energies of love, compassion, forgiveness, self-love, sensuality, tenderness, and passion.   The pink energy of love and forgiveness that is innately a part of the rose quartz crystal dissolves and transmutes the unwanted energies of shame, guilt, fear, trauma etc that we may be holding in our vagina (and our whole bodies) – and most importantly – it does this very gently.

Working with a rose quartz pleasure wand also helps activate and clear the heart chakra, so we can be more loving and forgiving towards ourselves and others, which is tremendously healing in and of itself when we are working on dissolving fear, shame, guilt and sexual trauma.

These are all abilities that rose quartz naturally possesses, and then I take it a step further by intentionally blessing each piece with Reiki energy, and using Pranic Healing techniques to intentionally program every wand and egg that comes from my shop.

The crystal is filled with Reiki to clear it and activate it’s highest potential, then instructed to continually heal and bless it’s new owner with healing, loving energy, *safely and appropriately*.   Healing and releasing trauma can be intense, so the crystal is programmed to work with it’s new owner gently, transmuting the unwanted energies into love and light.

Now, because these are energetic tools that are doing real work for us, clearing and disintegrating and transmuting unwanted energies, I do stress in my care sheets and FAQ on my website that they should be cleansed physically *and* energetically after every use.

If working with a yoni wand is intensifying unwanted emotions it is likely because:

1)  The wand is bringing the emotions up to the surface of their consciousness to be acknowledged, blessed with love, and released (such as repressed trauma, anger or grief that has been buried and held inside of their body).  As energy healers we know that a huge part of releasing painful emotional blockages is acknowledging they exist and then thanking them for the lesson and letting them go.

2) They are not cleansing the wand energetically enough and it needs to be cleared of the energies it has been helping them to disintegrate and release.  Whether it’s by using my cleansing mist, or any other crystal safe cleansing method such as smudging, soaking in a bowl of salt water, sound clearing, energy clearing, or letting the sun and moon cleanse and charge the wand, this step is very important.

I also offer obsidian because it is also non-porous like quartz crystal and safe to use inside your body, but the Obsidian is a much less gentle crystal.  It is very powerful, protective, and cleansing, and works very quickly, but can be more intense.



Q:  My wand has ice cracks, inclusions and/or pressure lines, is it safe to use?

A: Yes, absolutely.  Because these pieces are 100% natural crystal, there are small imperfections that make each piece unique.  Some wands will be carved from more translucent stone, others will be more of a dark pink, or light pink with white streaks, or any variation in between.  This is due to the natural variation that occurs in these crystals, and is completely normal and safe to use.  There are also some wands with beautiful rainbows or other inclusions in the stone, and these do not affect the wand negatively in any way.  Each piece is carefully inspected by me personally before it is shipped, while I am cleansing and blessing the stone for you.  I have very high quality standards and do not ship out any piece that does not meet these exacting standards.

Q:  Are Goddess Wands and Goddess Eggs safe for internal use?

A:  Yes, the natural rose quartz and obsidian crystal that these wands are hand carved from is all natural and organic, non-porous, and will not leach any unwanted chemicals into your body.

Some sellers offer wands made of many different gemstones, without regard to the potential toxicity or health hazards.  While all crystals are certainly beautiful, some contain hazardous compounds such as aluminum, mercury, sulfur etc and are not meant to be used inside the body.  Please be aware of this when shopping for a gemstone dildo or yoni egg.